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| Discipline and Behavior Management (for educators, counselors, other professionals) |
The
Beauty of Losing Control
Spare the
Rod
What's Wrong With
“I-Messages”?
Rules & Boundaries
Behavior Management: Intervention Strategies
The Challenge of Setting Boundaries
Creating a 21st Century
Discipline School: Implications for Administrators
Characteristics of a Good Boundary
Checklist for Healthy Adult-Child Relationships
“Magic Sentences” for Avoiding Conflict
Reasons to Use Boundaries
Reasons to Not ask for excuses
Things to Remember about Setting a Boundary
Behavior Management: Intervention Strategies
Dangers of Encouraging Obedience and People-Pleasing
Guidelines for Offering Choices
Handling Negative Behavior
Reinforcing Positive Behavior
Motivating Cooperative Behavior
Self-Assessment
Characteristics of Healthy Adult-Child Relationships
Examples of Some New Ways of Thinking
Rules and Beliefs of Unhealthy Adult-Child
System
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21st Century Discipline
Creating Emotionally School
Being a Successful Teacher
Complete Book of Handouts
Responsibility, Respect & Relationships (Video series)
Creating Emotionally Safe Schools (Video)
Responsibility & Classroom Discipline (Video)
Discipline & Achievement (Video)
Connecting with Students & Parents (Video)
Teacher Tape (Cassette)
“Pads” on the Back
“The Beauty of Losing Control” (article)
“Great Expectations ” (article)
“Why Ask Why?” (article) |
21st Century Discipline
Being a Successful Teacher
Conflict in the Classroom
Dealing with Difficult Students:
Practical Strategies for Success with Defiant, Defeated and other At-Risk
Kid
Getting Off on the Right Foot (focus: Beginning Teachers)
Grownups, Kids & Boundaries
Positively Positive: Keeping the Focus You
Want
“You
Can’t Make Me!” Using Boundaries and Win-Win Power Dynamics
in the Classroom |
| Emotionally-Safe Schools |
Brave New World:
The Changing Role of the School
The Discipline Trap: Catching up to the 21st Century
21st Century
Discipline: Implications for Administrators
Interview: Creating Emotionally Safe Schools
Pretty & Popular:
Discrimination & Belonging
Characteristics of Healthy Adult-Child Relationships
Checklist for Healthy Adult-Child Relationships
Children at Risk, Families of Children at Risk
Conflict Prevention & Resolution Strategies
Dealing Successfully with Your Students’
Parents
Information Age Schools vs. Industrial Age
Schools
Rules and Beliefs of Unhealthy Adult-Child Systems
The School as a Dysfunctional Family
Survey: Is your School an Emotionally Safe Place?
Stressful or Painful School Experiences that
can Compromise Emotional Safety
Ways to Improve the School's Social Culture |
21st Century Discipline
Creating Emotionally School
Mentors, Masters & Mrs. MacGregor
High School’s Not Forever
Complete Book of Handouts
Responsibility, Respect & Relationships (Video series)
Creating Emotionally Safe Schools (Video)
Responsibility & Classroom Discipline (Video)
Emotional Safety & Learning Styles (Video)
Helping Students in Crisis (Video)
Connecting with Students & Parents (Video)
Teacher Tape (Cassette)
TeacherSaver Memo Pads |
Conflict in the Classroom:
Attacking Problems, NOT People!
Creating Emotionally Safe Schools
Dealing with Difficult Students:
Practical Strategies for Success with Defiant, Defeated and other At-Risk
Kids
Is Your School an Emotionally
Safe Place?
“My Brain Doesn’t
Work Like That!”
“No, Really! I'm Fine!” Supporting Kids in Crisis |
| Leadership |
21st Century
Discipline: Implications for Administrators
Brave New World:
The Changing Role of the School |
21st Century Discipline
Creating Emotionally School
Mentors, Masters & Mrs. MacGregor
Complete Book of Handouts
Responsibility, Respect & Relationships (Video series)
“Secrets of Successful Mentorship” (article) |
Secrets
of Successful Mentorship
The
Soft-Drink Dilemma: Finding Win-Win Solutions in a Win-Lose World
Testing, Testing:
Surviving the Pressure |
| Learning and Teaching |
Getting Away With
Success
Great Expectations (for New Teachers)
Testing, Testing...
NCLB: The Football Version
Thank You, Mrs. Mather
Ways to Be an Effective
Mentor
Why I Teach
Links to other articles about testing and NCLB
The Animal School
Children at Risk, Families of Children at Risk
Conditions with ADHD “Look-Alike” Symptoms
The “Ideal” Student
Multiple Intelligences: Many Ways to be “Smart”
Taking a Stand Against Homework
Stress & The Brain
Water & The Body
Ways to Reach More Students
Working With Different Sensory/Modality Strengths
and Limitations
What About Homework?
Making Homework WORK: Building Flexibility into Your Homework Policy |
21st Century Discipline
Creating Emotionally School
Being a Successful Teacher
Mentors, Masters & Mrs. MacGregor
Rx: Handwriting
High School’s Not Forever
Complete Book of Handouts
Responsibility, Respect & Relationships (Video series)
Emotional Safety & Learning Styles (Video)
Discipline & Achievement (Video)
Teacher Tape (Cassette)
TeacherSaver Memo Pads |
“My Brain Doesn’t
Work Like That!”
The “I Can” Classroom:
Building for Success and Achievement for ALL Students
Testing, Testing:
Surviving the Pressure
Being a Successful Teacher: The
“Nuts & Bolts” of Classroom Management
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| Parenting: Discipline, Boundaries and Follow Through |
Characteristics of a Good Boundary
Reasons to Use Boundaries
Reasons to Not ask for Excuses
Things to Remember about Setting a Boundary
Ways to be
More Proactive
The Challenge of Setting Boundaries
Ways to Build Irresponsibility
in Your Child
Link to an interview in San Francisco Chronicle: Parents’ Gizmos High on Tech, Low on Trust
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Parents, Teens & Boundaries
The Parent’s Little Book of Lists
Complete Book of Handouts
Win-Win Parenting (Video)
Parent Tapes on CD
TeacherSaver Memo Pads
“Bedtime Without a Battle” (article)
“Following Through ” (article)
“Is Obedience Enough? ” (article)
“Not Now ” (article)
“Proactivity: Thinking Ahead” (article)
“Why Ask Why?” (article) |
Parents, Teens & Boundaries: How to Draw the Line
“You Can’t Make Me!” Using Boundaries to Build Responsibility, Cooperation & Mutual Respect |
| Parenting: Motivation, Reinforcement and Intervention; Skill Building |
Behavior Management: Intervention Strategies
Dangers of Encouraging Obedience and People-Pleasing
Guidelines for Offering Choices
Guidelines for Handling Negative Behavior
Guidelines for Reinforcing Positive Behavior
“Magic Sentences” for Avoiding Conflict
Motivating Cooperative Behavior
Benefits of Asking
Questions Instead of Giving Answers
No-Lose Parenting
Teachers Taking a Stand Against Homework
What About Homework?
Is Your Child’s Homework Worth Doing? |
“Ask, Don’t Tell ” (article)
Parents, Teens & Boundaries
The Parent’s Little Book of Lists
Complete Book of Handouts
Win-Win Parenting (Video)
Parent Tapes on CD
TeacherSaver Memo Pads
“Dream Big ” (article)
“I’m Calling Your Mother ” (article)
“No-Lose Parenting ” (article)
“Unconditional Motivation ” (article) |
Pushing Prevention: Preventing Substance Abuse and Other Addictive and Destructive Behaviors
Character Counts: Building
Relationships that Build Character
“My Brain Doesn’t
Work Like That!”
“No, Really! I'm Fine!” |
Parenting: Relationship Building |
Checklist for Healthy Adult-Child Relationships
Model
Respect with Your Child
How Do You Parent?
Ways to Become
a More Conscious Parent
Ways to Be an Effective
Mentor
What’s Wrong With “I-Messages”?
The Seven Worst Things to Say to Your Kids During a Divorce
Characteristics of Healthy Adult-Child Relationships
Checklist for Healthy Adult-Child Relationships
Examples of Some New Ways of Thinking
Rules and Beliefs of Unhealthy Adult-Child
System
Parenting info in Spanish.
Parenting info in French. |
Parents, Teens & Boundaries
The Parent’s Little Book of Lists
High School’s Not Forever
Complete Book of Handouts
Win-Win Parenting (Video)
Parent Tapes on CD
TeacherSaver Memo Pads
“Positively Positive” (article)
“Saying “I Love You’ ” (article)
“What’s Wrong with I-Messages” (article) |
Positively Positive at Home:
Keeping the Focus You Want
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| Personal & Professional Relationships |
A reason, a season or a lifetime(Relationships) |
“Are Your Colleagues Driving You Crazy?” (article)
Being a Successful Teacher
Mentors, Masters & Mrs. MacGregor
Parents, Teens & Boundaries
The Parent’s Little Book of Lists
Complete Book of Handouts
Responsibility, Respect & Relationships (Video series)
Connecting with Students & Parents (Video)
TeacherSaver Memo Pads
“I’m Calling Your Mother ” (article)
“Secrets of Successful Mentorship” (article)
“What’s Wrong with I-Messages?” (article) |
Are Your Colleagues Driving you
Crazy?
Boundary Setting 101: The
Basics of Accountability and Self-Care
Clearing the Hurdles: Eliminating
Stress-Producing Obstacles in Relationships
Secrets
of Successful Mentorship
The
Soft-Drink Dilemma: Finding Win-Win Solutions in a Win-Lose World |
| Professional Growth & Career Enhancement |
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Complete Book of Handouts
TeacherSaver Memo Pads
“Great Expectations ” (article)
“Secrets of Successful Mentorship” (article) |
So You Want to Write a Book?
What's a Purchase Order? Confessions
of an Accidental CEO |
| Recommended Reading |
Bibliography of Creating Emotionally
Safe Schools
Recommended Reading from 21st Century Discipline |
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| Self-Care and Inspiration |
How to Stay Stressed
Real Teachers
Silver Linings
Why I Teach
Wonder all Around
6 Ways to Take More
Time for Yourself
36
Things You Can Do To Feel Great!
What is Optimal Self-Esteem
Dimensions of Gratitude
Educators at Risk
Examples of Some New Ways of Thinking
Stress-Producing Obstacles in Relationships
Water & the Body
Ways to Live in Gratitude
Ways to Live Optimistically
Self-care info in Spanish.
Self-care info in French.
What Teachers Make |
Mentors, Masters & Mrs. MacGregor
The Parent’s Little Book of Lists
Daily Riches
Complete Book of Handouts
Responsibility, Respect & Relationships (Video series)
Teacher Tape (Cassette)
“Thank a Teacher” (article) |
Boundary Setting 101: The
Basics of Accountability and Self-Care
Daily Riches: An Abundance of
Gratitude |
| Social and Emotional Development |
Bearing Witness: Support
for Children in Crisis
Alternatives to Advice-Giving: Ask, Don’t
Tell
Beliefs that Help Create a Safe Emotional Environment
Building Decision-Making Skills
The Myth of the Self-Esteem “Myth”
Supportive Alternatives for Dealing with Other
People’s Problems and Feelings
Supportiveness: Dealing with a Child’s
Feelings (or Problems) |
21st Century Discipline
Creating Emotionally School
Being a Successful Teacher
Mentors, Masters & Mrs. MacGregor
Parents, Teens & Boundaries
The Parent’s Little Book of Lists
High School’s Not Forever
Complete Book of Handouts
Creating Emotionally Safe Schools (Video)
Responsibility & Classroom Discipline (Video)
Helping Students in Crisis (Video)
Teacher Tape (Cassette)
TeacherSaver Memo Pads
TeacherSaver Memo Pads
“Being a Supportive Listener ” (article)
“Dream Big ” (article) |
“No, Really! I'm Fine!” Supporting Kids in Crisis
Positively Positive: Keeping
the Focus You Want
Pushing Prevention: Preventing Substance Abuse and Other Addictive and Destructive Behaviors |
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About Jane Bluestein, Ph.D.: Includes Jane’s resume, speaking resume, bio, an intro to use for your seminar, a complete press kit, details about Jane’s background, and testimonials about Jane’s work and information.
Jane Bluestein’s Blogs: Includes year-by-year accounts of what Jane’s been up to, as well as trip blogs and special friends.
A List of All Handouts by Dr. Jane Bluestein (also, handouts in Spanish, articles in French)
A List of All Articles by Dr. Jane
Bluestein (also, articles in Spanish, articles in French)
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